THE PAST, THE PRESENT & THE FUTURE.

_The past
"Accept your past with no regret"
 Everyone has a past and often times they are filled with dark clouds that we try to hide from ourselves and from those around us. Many of us live in the dark shadows of our past and then pretend they don't exist , we battle our demons in secret and to the world say we are fine. We are humans after all , and one of our greatest coping mechanisms against trauma is to make ourselves forget they ever happened. We run from it but we can't hide and sooner or later we are confronted by the past , and it completely dominates our life and truth remains  that until  we accept it, until we acknowledge that we can't change the past , we are stuck living in an endless cycle of pain and despair. Many of us are trapped in a prison of fear and guilt hunted by demons too strong to fight and oftentimes we lose.
   ‎ "Make peace with your past so it won't destroy your present
‎   In the words of Trent Shelton , it's rehab time. It's time to get back the reigns of your life. Accepting your past is the catalyst for healing, acceptance doesn't mean you forget it happened, rather, it means you forgive yourself and you will never allow that past have power over your life again. The moment the damage of your past no longer controls your life , the healing process begins. Many of us don't give room for healing but instead bandage up our wounds with sex, food, alcohol, drugs, work , etc. Seeking peace from the seem less of places and ruining our present with the memories of our past. So forgive yourself cause only then can you forgive others and live your best life now.



_The present
"Handle your present with confidence"
   ‎We all carry the shadows of our past into the present, for a man is a sum of his experiences and these experiences constitute his past and as long as we continue to hide and run from these experiences they control our lives and victimize us. So start living your life and stop conceptualizing on anything. Choosing to live in the past only robs one of truly living so don't just exist but live each day like it's your last day on earth for you can only heal your past by living a fulfilled today.
"Each today, well lived makes yesterday a dream of happiness and each tomorrow a vision of hope. Look therefore, to this one day for it alone is life."_anonymous
   ‎ live in the present wisely and earnestly , make mistakes, learn from them and move forward, come out of your shell and blossom into the incredible individual that you are. The greatest mistake you can make is letting life pass you by while fretting about the past or worrying about the future. Don't surrender your personal power and become a victim but instead live your live to its fullest potential, if you want to change the world, do it now, make a move and don't live in a future that does not exist yet or in a past you cannot  ‎change. Live in your present with complete acceptance of what has been, don't worry about what might be but enjoy to the fullest what is.

_The future
"Face your future with no fear"
   Naturally as humans, we fear the unknown and continually spend our days worrying about the things beyond our control, stressing about the future and trying our hardest to control all the outcome of our life. We justify sacrificing the joy of today for a tomorrow that may never come instead of preparing for the future. The choices you make today, make up the experiences of your future. Therefore, you owe it to your future to fight for your present and accept life as it comes.
‎   "Every tomorrow has two handles, we can either hold it with the handle of anxiety or with the handle of faith" _henry ward
   ‎ The fact that the future remains unpredictable scares majority of people , the uncertainty of what happens next, the inability to control what happens at the next phase of your life spirals a lot of people into unceasing fear. But still, all those fretting, worrying and fear doesn't change those facts neither does it magically grant you the ability to see into the future. So live this life a day at a time, build that future you so desire brick by brick cause while you can't always control the future, you know more often than not, that the decisions we make today, will lead to something good if you allow it to, and even when things don't turn out like you expect it to, you'll get through it too. So trust that while it may not be the way you planned, it's just how its meant to be. So get excited about what might go right, start that business, get that degree, give room for mistakes for its how we learn, improve yourself and be the best version of you.
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